I hope they'll be able to be supportive, but try not to get upset with them as I'm sure they mean well. While I understand your need to focus on your career, please do not do so at the expense of friendships outside work. However important your career is, you will need space outside it to unwind sometimes and people who can give you a different focus or perspective on issues.
If you're single and child-free, then, in years to come, friendships will be even more important, so please don't alienate them now just because they don't understand you. He's very attractive and very bright and while I'm not supposed to favour one pupil over another, I know I'm spending more time than I should helping him. I don't think anyone suspects how I really feel, and I know it's wrong and that there's nothing I can do about it, but my feelings for him are genuine and I wish I could take them further.
There is no easy way around this, but you are his teacher and, as a student, he's vulnerable, while you're in a position of trust. Even once he's left school, you'll still be the person in authority and so will face any and all of the consequences if anything went wrong. You wouldn't be human if you didn't have some feelings for the young people in your care, but if you are looking to me to give you permission to take this further, you are going to be disappointed.
You run the risk of ruining your career, so put some distance between yourself and this boy as soon as possible. We were married for 22 years and while the first seven years were wonderful, it turned very sour.
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Following on from Emmen's response, I'm also sorry you're feeling frustrated at your current situation. But maybe you could look at it from the perspective that it is only current and can be changed if you're not happy. Regarding the friends situation, currently no one is able to really interact with each other, so this forum is definitely a good place to start.
Are there any friends or cousins or other relatives who you've lost touch with but could send a quick message to say 'hey, hope you're okay'? This might get the ball rolling, or at the least, make you feel like you made an effort to reach out.
Sign up below for regular emails filled with information, advice and support for you or your loved ones. You are currently: Home Seeking support Helping yourself and others Online forums. Welcome to the Healthy Families forums! Complete your profile Join the online community Community rules. Cancel The title field is required! Made an account purely because I need to be heard. All I want is just a bit of hope. I hate myself so much. Why should my life be this frustrating?
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